Guiding men over 40 who feel stuck and lost through a reset plan to reclaim their strength and purpose for the best years of their life.
Does this sound familiar?
“I should have it all figured out by now, but I don’t.” I feel like I'm just going through the motions working, paying bills, and repeating the cycle without any real excitement or growth. I don't know what’s next, stay in my career? Start over? But I'm afraid of making the wrong move.
Your Marriage feels stale. Your wife seems more like a roommate than a lover. The spark is gone. Struggles with intimacy, Sex is rare, and when it does happen, it feels mechanical.
Kids are distant, Your teenagers or grown kids are wrapped up in their own lives. You feels disconnected from them. Lack of deep friendships. You have acquaintances, but no close male friends you can truly open up to.
You used to feel strong, powerful, and in control, but now? Not so much. You look in the mirror and don't recognize yourself - the belly, the tired eyes, the lack of fire. You feel overshadowed by younger, hungrier men at work and in life. Your second guessing himself more than ever.
You know you should exercise, eat better, work on your mindset, but you can’t seem to follow through. You start and stop things and never fully commit, which makes you feel even weaker. "Why can’t I just get my shit together?"
Don't worry, I have something that might help....
MEET Your Coach
Hello, I'm Carlos
I understand how it feels to wake up and wonder, ‘Is this all there is?
Nobody should have to feel like they’re just going through the motions, watching life pass them by and feel like their best years are behind them.
I've felt the disconnect where your role as a provider overshadows your identity as a man.
I understand the fear of looking ahead and wondering, ‘Am I running out of time to turn things around? You should not have to feel like you’re stuck in a life you no longer recognize.
I've guided many men through this season of confusion, burnout, and silent frustration and helped them come out the other side stronger, sharper, and more alive than ever.
This isn’t the end of your story. It’s the beginning of your Rebuild process.
No man should settle for a life that feels like it’s
already over. You still have time, You still have purpose.
And the best chapters of your life can still be written if you’re willing to turn the page.
Now Vision This....
You wake up with energy, you’re proud of the man in the mirror, and you’re leading your life not reacting to it.
You’re showing up for your family as the man they need strong, steady, and fully present. Your kids see a father worth looking up to. Your partner sees a man who leads. You feel alive again.
You’re living with purpose, not pressure. No more ‘what ifs.’ Just action, alignment, and results
You stopped chasing the wrong things and started building the right life. You’ve got your fire back and it shows. You turn your midlife crisis into a comeback story and you're just getting started
These results are possible and more....
95% of the men I work with report feeling more confident and in control of their lives within 90 days.
Men who complete the 90 day program report a 3X increase in motivation and self-discipline
85% of the men I've worked with have negotiated higher salaries, started new businesses, or made significant career shifts within a year
90% of men in our coaching program say their relationships improved whether with their spouse, kids, or colleagues
All of the men I've worked with have improved health and fitness, and have lost on average 15 lbs. of fat weight after completing the 90 day program
Super Simple 4 Step Process
Book a Free Strategy Call
Let’s discuss where you’re at and what’s holding you back
Join the Coaching program
Join the 90 day proven framework to rebuilding your body, relationships and purpose
Take Action with Guidance
Implement the plan with structured 1 on 1 Do it With You (DWY) coaching. I will guide you through each step, so you can avoid mistakes
Transformation
Regain your confidence, energy and purpose and turn the next chapter of your life into the best chapters of your life
Ready to get started?
What Past Clients are saying....
"Changed careers in the middle of coaching. I developed wellness I started to diet and exercise I lost 40 pounds "
Witness Jonathan's incredible transformation! From avoiding divorce to focusing on his kids, losing 40 pounds to changing careers and overcome mental health and relationship struggles"
"I'm a better man, father and husband"
Discover how coaching transformed Chris's life and family dynamics! This heartfelt testimonial highlights the power of professional guidance. Don't miss out on this inspiring journey!
" Doubled salary to 6 figure, career change and leadership "
Learn why Devin chose Carlos for coaching and how it led to incredible returns on investment. Inspiring story of personal growth and achievement is a must-watch for anyone looking to unlock their potential
"I struggled with my identity because part of what I'm doing in my job, conflicted with what I wanted to do and you helped me change that"
Watch this inspiring journey of self-discovery and transformation! Learn how embracing a new identity can lead to breakthroughs in coaching. Perfect for anyone looking to redefine themselves!
More Testimonials
Chris Cannon
I worked with Carlos over the last several months to help me with some significant life & work changes. His methods and support were instrumental in me not just making it through the changes but to now be in the best place relationally, mentally and physically that I've been in years.
Jarrod Black
I booked a session with Carlos to gain clarity on a couple of situations I was faced with in my career and goals. After my coaching session with Carlos my goals and objectives became very clear. I feel as if we worked together to create the roadmap that I needed to meet my goals. Carlos is very realistic and down to Earth type of guy. I highly recommend anyone whom may be facing some issues to book a session with him
Matthew Schutte
If you are looking for someone to help you accomplish your goals Carlos is your man. He is a great listener and his attention to detail is unmatched. Very dedicated and he proves it everyday with the intention he puts into every decision. Absolutely love talking with him and working with him. He doesn’t just tell you how to live your life but helps you live the life that you desire. He has a gift for helping you discover the answer on your own through his coaching. Would highly recommend you won’t be disappointed. Peace and love!
Seth Ramser
Carlos has a clear sense of purpose with his coaching. He was able to ascertain rather quickly what the core of the issue was and gave me tangible ways to work through them in a way that helped me understand myself better. Highly recommend
Vincent Khoo
I was struggling with being a husband and father before I started working with Carlos. Carlos has been a great listener and tremendous at asking lots of deep question to help me navigate and guide life. He kept me accountable for things that I need to work on. His experience and journey in self improvement made him someone that can related to lots of struggle that I was going through. The biggest change and gift I got from Carlos is having the right mindset. That is truly the biggest tool for any situation.
Carlos offer so much more than what I can express in words, I’m truly grateful to be able to work with Carlos. I would recommend anyone who are having struggle in life and looking for self improvement to work with Carlos
Andrew Ormonde
Working with Carlos has been a truly transformative experience. From the very first session, he created a supportive and insightful environment that allowed me to gain an unprecedented clarity of purpose. Through his compassionate yet direct approach, he helped me confront uncomfortable truths about myself, which, while challenging, were essential for my growth.
What truly sets Carlos apart is his unwavering belief in my potential. He encouraged me to dream big, far beyond the confines of my comfort zone, and instilled in me the discipline and motivation to work tirelessly towards those dreams. His guidance has been a perfect blend of wisdom and practical advice, tailored to my unique journey.
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